A New Kind of Family Adventure
If you’d told me 10 years ago that I’d one day be the “co-captain” of a family fishing boat, I’d have laughed and said, “Not me.” I didn’t grow up with this. I’m Korean American, born in South Korea, and my family moved to Minnesota when I was three. Growing up in the suburbs, my childhood was all about trying to fit in. Fishing? Boating? Not on my radar.
But here I am now, boating and fishing with my husband, Nick, and our kids, Harlan (5) and Juniper (3), like it’s second nature. It didn’t start that way, though. Learning to boat felt intimidating at first, but I’ve come to realize that you don’t have to grow up on the water to fall in love with it—or to make it part of your family’s story.
Tip: It’s okay to feel like a beginner! Boating has a learning curve, but that’s half the fun. You don’t need to know everything to get started—just jump in and learn as you go.
From Canoe to Our First Boat
Our boating journey started with a Kevlar canoe that originally belonged to Nick’s parents. It somehow found its way into our possession, and we decided to make it our own. That canoe carried us on some memorable adventures, especially in the Boundary Waters, but when Harlan was born, we realized fishing from a canoe with a baby in tow would be much tougher. Yes, it’s possible but we wanted something more stable and spacious. It was time for a change.
That’s when we got our first real boat—a simple, reliable vessel that fits conveniently in our garage and doesn’t require much maintenance. It made everything easier: fishing trips, family outings, and even the spontaneous decision to head out on the water after a busy day. That boat became the key to unlocking new adventures for our growing family, and it’s been with us ever since, creating countless memories along the way.
Taking the Helm (Literally)
Boating has taught me more than I expected—not just about driving a boat but about myself. These days, I’m hands-on with backing up the trailer, navigating us to the perfect fishing spot, and directing us to the calmest bay away from wind and choppy waters when the kids are reeling in their lines. It’s empowering, and if I’m honest, it’s kind of thrilling.
But what makes boating special for me is that it’s something we all do together. Everyone has a role: Nick has control of the trolling motor, Harlan loves pretending to steer, and Juniper is the designated snack distributor. (Trust me, snacks are a critical part of any successful outing with kids!)
Tip: Bring your kids into the process! Whether it’s letting them carry life jackets or bait, or teaching them how to spot fish, giving them little jobs makes them feel like part of the adventure.
Why the Water Matters
There’s something about being on the water that’s just… different. Time slows down. The stress of everyday life fades away. And you’re left with these simple, beautiful moments that you might miss on land—Juniper giggling as she spots a fish, Harlan’s serious face as he holds his fishing rod, or the sound of waves lapping against the boat.
For me, these moments are more than just family bonding—they’re reminders of how far I’ve come. I didn’t grow up with these experiences, but I’m creating them now, not just for myself but for my kids.
Tip: Keep it simple. A successful day on the water doesn’t mean catching the biggest fish or cruising miles from shore. It’s about enjoying the time together, no matter what happens.
Breaking Barriers, One Wave at a Time
One thing I’ve realized is that there’s no one “right” way to be a boater or angler. You don’t have to have decades of experience or a family legacy to belong on the water. I didn’t grow up with this, and yet here I am—navigating, troubleshooting, and leading my family through every adventure.
I want my kids to see that their mom belongs out here, too. Boating isn’t just a fun family outing; it’s a way for me to show Harlan and Juniper that we can all step into spaces that might feel unfamiliar and make them our own.
Tip: Take a local boating safety course. It’s a great way to build your confidence and ensure you’re prepared to keep your family safe on the water.
A Tradition We’re Building Together
For my family, boating is more than an activity—it’s become our tradition. Whether we’re cruising to a quiet bay, casting lines and watching our bobbers, or just drifting and soaking in the sun, every trip feels like a memory in the making.
And the best part? My kids are growing up with these experiences as part of their story. They’re learning patience when the fish aren’t biting, joy when they reel in their first catch, and respect for the water and everything it gives us.
Tip: Always pack more snacks, sunscreen, and layers than you think you’ll need. Kids (and grown-ups!) are happier when they’re comfy and well-fed.
It’s Never Too Late to Start
If you’re like me and didn’t grow up with boating or fishing, don’t let that stop you. The water doesn’t care where you’re from or how much you know. It’s waiting for you, ready to bring your family closer, one trip at a time.
For us, boating is where we connect, laugh, and build the kind of memories I hope my kids will carry with them forever. It’s our tradition now—and it’s one I wouldn’t trade for anything.
Tip: Just start. Whether it’s renting a small boat, paddling a kayak, or joining a friend on their boat, there’s no wrong way to begin. Every adventure starts somewhere.
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